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It helps if you get excited by showing off your own body, and are eager to stare longingly at the bod of your person of choice. Remember, you're going to be moving your laptop around to get a better angle of your genitals, so I wouldn't worry too much about keeping a straight face.
Otherwise, why are they wasting their time and your time? In we're-in-the-same-room sex, there's a simple formula for effective dirty talking.
If you can't find confidence in any other aspect of Skype sex, find confidence in that.
I'm still figuring it all out, but here are a few tips I've learned from my foray into this brave new world of e-humping. It's like porn you direct and co-star in, which is both exciting and nerve-wracking.
Having an encouraging person on the other end is invaluable. (Am I just a set of naked pixels for you to put your sex feelings into? Since you're clearly not near your partner, a little keepsake for the lonely times is nice.